Farawayplanet

[Farawayplanet]

Thankyou all

Still processing everything but yes, setting boundaries is the way forward.

Just wish I could sleep at night. I often see the early hours.

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[Farawayplanet]

Thankyou, it’s really hard to get on the chat to woman’s aid. I only get a few mins a day to myself.

I think I may need to leave and go to a police station when I am in a town. As we are travelling around getting access to local services is hard. Ex yesterday we were in the (detail removed by moderator).

Feel like crying.

[Farawayplanet]

Thankyou both for your replies. Makes me feel a little better that it takes on average 7 times to leave. He is defo keeping tabs on me. I went to take a phone call and he followed me around. I went for a bath, he came in twice in half an hour to ‘check I’m ol’.

(detail removed by moderator) I’ve also ruined his life and do I know how hurt he was that I left? It really hurt him apparently.

I definitely need serious help to get away the next time I am ready to leave.

[Farawayplanet]

Thankyou all and I’m still shocked today at what he said. Thankfully he’s on a long shift today (though it doesn’t stop the harresment via text) so I have some space. He wants me to see a sex therapist as I’m the one with the problem according to him. I don’t know where he thinks the money is coming from to pay for the therapist! Just going along with it at the moment, there is nothing wrong with me. It’s him. I don’t love him. I need to decide when to tell him it’s over. The list is far too long now. I need to keep me and my boy safe.

[Farawayplanet]

Wow! Thankyou for posting that

[Farawayplanet]

Hi –
I could have written your message too. I am getting my stuff together in order to leave as I can not take any more. I just didnt want to read and run, but just so you know, you are not alone. I eventually spoke to womens aid and they confirmed what i thought etc as I just did not want to believe it.

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