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Thanks, just feel like I am going mad at times he sounds so sensible on the phone hard to believe it’s the same person who climbs into your window. Everything will be reported from now on, not taking any chances.xx

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As above, so sorry you are going through all this. I have just come out of an abusive relationship with a very intimidating guy. I so hope you can get the help you need to leave. Get all your friends and family around you and get their support. I was left with all the debt bills Tec to pay and have yet to unravel it all. But me and my daughter are away and I feel blessed everyday that we wake up without the underlying atmosphere, although I am still terrified that he hasn’t yet finished with me. Stay strong.xx

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Thank you all, seeing a solicitor next week. Have had a text which I have ignored and will continue to ignore his attempts to get in touch until I know where I stand.x

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Well done Hon, hope you find the peace now that you deserve.xx

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Hi guys mine always had a better way of doing things and things had to be where he wanted them. So nice to go through the house slowly placing things where I want them knowing there won’t be a row when he gets in. It’s all control isn’t it?

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Hi, I asked my husband to leave (detail removed by Moderator) weeks ago after he hit me in front of our young daughter. The slap in the face made me think about the rest of our relationship and I realised I have been experiencing emotional manipulation and abuse for our entire marriage. My husband wants contact with our daughter and I have made this possible although not alone. He uses every opportunity to see his daughter as an excuse to berate me, calling me mad, saying I physically attacked him (I did see red and grab him before he hit me, he had provoked me for 24 hours and was throwing stuff at me!) His latest trick is to bring a microphone to every meeting so he can record everything I say! Now I refuse to discuss anything so he tries to incite a response. His latest idea is to take our daughter to (detail removed by Moderator) to see his parents, my alarm bells are ringing s I feel he is unstable at present. I feel so paranoid and attacked at the moment just stuck for ideas on how to handle it all.

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Thank you KIP have considered no contact but feel awful for my daughter not seeing him, she worships him I also have his family pressuring too. Do feel that he uses our meetings as an opportunity to discuss my mental health though. Will continue to get advice and if he continues with his behaviour which he will I will have to put a better arrangement in place.xx

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