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[peachycuteness1]

I’ve decided to get rid of the baby. It’s the best option. & im going to stay away from him. I need to focus on myself…

[peachycuteness1]

To be honest. I know he isn’t going to change. & for about 4 days now, I’ve had no contact. & I’m planning on keeping it that way.
Thanks

[peachycuteness1]

Thank you, he hasn’t really moved in as such but stays here every night. He doesn’t keep anything here though. I’ve already got a non mol with my baby dad, and I wanted to phone the police for assault but I just can’t go through it all again. So I’m just going to get rid of him.
Thank you for the advice. I already knew it but just wanted reassurance you know.

[peachycuteness1]

Its completely normal to feel this way, its been a while since I left my partner and took our son with me. I still miss him, but I know he is no good for me. I feel confused because I feel as if I hate him for everything he done but yet im still missing him…its a rollercoaster of emotions…Things will bet better x

[peachycuteness1]

I have recently gotten out of an abusive relationship, my ex partner stalked me for a while. My best advice is gather as much evidence as you can and report it to the police, and get a non=molestation order against him. I know its hard hunny, even when my ex was on bail, i found it so hard to not talk to him. Even sometimes now I feel like contacting him again, but then I have to remind myself what he done to me and why I stopped contacting him. Its so hard to untangle yourself from them, its like they are a drug that is so addictive. Just try and stay strong!

[peachycuteness1]

I know what I need to do. I need to keep myself and my son safe. It would be selfish for me to keep this baby as it won’t be easy, and my son never asked for this. So it’s best if I get rid. & stay clear from him.

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And do I want a baby father who abuses? Manipulates. I’d never get him out of my life. My family would instantly hate me. I’m in a mess. But I know im still a mum to my little bit and he needs me. I love him and don’t want to loose him. So I’ve decided to stay off the drink. When I drink I make stupid decisions.

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I know. It’s my own fault. But idk if I can go through with an abortion. As I’ve said, I’ve miscarried, and aborted before and I felt ever so bad. I’ve always wanted another baby, but it’s with someone who isn’t stable. I don’t doubt he isn’t a good dad, as he’s got kids from previous relationships and the baby mum has always said he’s a good father. But I know he isn’t right for me.

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Thank you also for your reply, in regards to my son, I can not trust him with our son at the moment. Hes very unpredictable and doesn’t put his son first, he has threatened to take him and never bring him back. I don’t think my ex partner is mentally stable enough, he thought it was acceptable to harass me for months on end, and then also do things like break into our old home and (detail removed by moderator) . He is a very calculated and violent, I had even went away for (detail removed by moderator) to get away from my home as he kepy coming round and he would phone up and say he knew where we were etc. I dont want him anywhere near my son at the moment so (detail removed by moderator).
Thanks again for your reply and I will have a look at the article. 🙂

[peachycuteness1]

Thank you for replying back to me, it means alot…I havent been to my GP yet and just dont know how if that makes sense. Im ashamed and embarrassed…and your so right. One thing i sort of learnt was that i shouldnt take it personal, and that i will never get the why he did it to me, it couldve been anyone but i was unfortunately there at the time. I do believe things happen for a reason, and i do belive i needed to go through that to get stronger in a way….thank you again.x

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