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    • #123223
      StationEleven
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      Hi Summer, Happy Morther’s Day to you. Don’t wait for his acknowledgement or kind words. You are a great mother because you are doing everything you can to keep your child safe. Sending you a massive hug from someone like you, who feels lonely and hurt. I’m thinking to take my son for a walk and buy myself some flowers today! Stay up!Lots of love xx

    • #121769
      StationEleven
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      Thank you for sharing your feelings Losingbattle. I have such a fear of men at the moment, it seems like I won’t ever be able to be with someone, trust another man. I was trying fee app dating but after a couple of messages I just understood that I am not ready. I dont have a space in me for another man right now. So I totally understand how you feel, and yes I think you made a right decision- take it slowly, enjoy been single 🙂❤

    • #121604
      StationEleven
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      Hi BlueSkies and thank you for your post. This is the 3rd time I am reading it since xmas and everytime it gives me strength and hope. I am trying to make my ex leave ( we live in the same flat but different rooms), and now that he can see I am done with him he switched his attention to our son. By manipulating him he tries to hurt me and most of the time he succeeds.
      I can’t wait when I’ll be free from this man. Your post makes me want to meet you and give you a huge hug 🙂
      Stay strong, dont let him get to you. Xx

    • #117534
      StationEleven
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      Thank you KIP. I have been trying to get a legal advice from family law helpline that i found on Rights of Women but finding it impossible to get trough and they don’t have an email address. I will let my GP know about my situation, i didn’t know i could do that (or that it will be in any help).

    • #121912
      StationEleven
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      Good Luck Sweet4 ! Its a start, be ready to feel confused and scared, it’s ok. The most important thing is that you started to do something about your situation. Well done! xx

    • #121638
      StationEleven
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      Hi Sweet4, I feel you! it took me the whole month to figure out what to do. Same situation as yours, no eligible for legal aid but dont have enough saved for a solicitor. I contacted National Domestic Abuse Helpline. They sent me a consent form same day and I had 2 solicitors contacting me after about 2 days. They work pro-bono and help you with the form and the witness statement. They were extremely helpful and understanding. Very different to any family law firms I called before, who would not even talk to you before tell you how much it will cost.
      Actually it was KIP,who directed me! Thank you KIP !

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