herewegoagain

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Don’t look down the road..
Just concentrate on taking one step…for the longest journey starts with just one step

Sending hugs to you x

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NO no no it’s not your fault…questioning yourself did I not love him enough or give him enough support?…what about him giving you emotional support? it didn’t happen did it?…did he come and ask how your day went?
Doubt it very much

It’s never there fault… So stop thinking its your fault …it’s not

My ex still believes he’s done nothing wrong..
Despite years of physical emotional verbal abuse…

I will NEVER go back

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I hope your feeling ok now..

I too had an episode this week …I (detail removed by Moderator) out my ex lives in another country BUT my young adult son grabbed me by the wrist and frog marched me out of his room because I went in to (detail removed by Moderator)… I was suddenly right back there tears stinging my eyes

What the F*CK…totally unacceptable behaviour…trying to deal with it and make him understand you can’t treat ANY woman this way…:(

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I’ve come a long way over (detail removed by Moderator)..moved country..new home..new life new job…survived (detail removed by Moderator) heart attacks and open heart surgery

But young adult son…who was a s school age teenager back then grabbed me by the wrist and frog marched me out of his room…I was suddenly right back there

I’ve told him in no certain terms this unacceptable behaviour…he now says when he goes to uni he is going to cut all contact with me…and blames his father and ME for ruining his life…

I have said I should have left sooner son…and I love you your my child.

Huge overtones of his father…told him you have to. Change your core beliefs you. can’t treat your mother or ANY woman this way..
It’s not JUST A WELL I Wanted you out of my room!..
I don’t want to over react but it took me back to the days of his father pushing me. Around and locking me in rooms when he wanted to talk…I just don’t know

Can’t talk to the extended family I don’t want them to judge him…or my other children would hit the roof..

Just ignoring it is like going back to the old days

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This…”I’ll kill myself”…I finally realised what’s he having a Problem with? (detail removed by Moderator)

Just an empty threat from your abuser

Stay strong x

Love a person who is now safe x

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Maybe thread with all the power songs on…for me it’s This is me..Keala Settle..I am marching on to the beat I DRUM..not him..x

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I miss my mum so much..I know she wants me safe and happy and I bet yours does too

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I keep reading your question “How would you feel if you went complete No Contact with your ex?”..not sure I can, I think he would freak out and do anything to get through to me using the family contacts. His parents dont speak to me at alland blame me despite having seen his attacks in the past.I dont know maybe I am scared to finally let go.

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STOP..cut yourself some slack..I know I look around to and see other people coping so much better and with bigger problems..but YOU are important and your feelings and what is going on in you life is not to be dimissed or hidden..sending you all the strengh I’m trying to muster up to!

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Me to I’m a fighter it’s taken 4 walk outs on a marriage of decades.I have been seriously ill..like I am gonna die ill…the bast*rs didn’t even visit me in hospital. I am now filing for divorce and my children are standing right beside me. I am safe happy and warm…I will NEVER go back there Strength to all if I can do this anyone can x

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