Angeltakemehome

[Angeltakemehome]

It’s good you don’t live with him anymore and that you are finding yourself again. It’s normal to be triggered. I remember my first partner was quite abusive and would scare me a lot. There were problems with domestic violence in his family too so I was constantly on edge.

What do you feel you need right now?

[Angeltakemehome]

What rules and regulations is he telling you sister? I am also a revert.

[Angeltakemehome]

You are not used goods. I felt like this when I was with one of my partner’s. It seems as though virginity meant a lot to you. I am assuming you are Muslim? You can get married again! If your new partner knows the whole story I am sure he won’t see you as damaged goods. Are you divorced now?

[Angeltakemehome]

Texting him to know you are home etc seems controlling if you ask me. He left… are you sure you want to take him back? Seems like he thinks about his own life only. Whether he is comfortable. What about your friends, your family pet. Be careful taking back toxic people.

[Angeltakemehome]

I regret not leaving sooner, before he messed with my mind. You say you live at your parent’s house, I assume you didn’t have any children?

[Angeltakemehome]

You need help. When you are ready open up a little more. As for suicidal thoughts I am sure we all have them at some point in our lives. But yeah, your kids are vital when you think about suicide like you said. Don’t worry.

[Angeltakemehome]

I understand you. I was in a relationship with someone where I was a virgin hoping to get married. I felt pressured to say yes when he wanted sex. I gave in and didn’t say no even though I felt scared to have sex with him. I felt very sad afterwards. He tried to intercourse me and I thought he had had intercourse with me but he didn’t because one of the guys I met afterwards really had intercourse with me so I was confused and a bit uneducated. I felt sad after the first guy done that to me because I was waiting. I was waiting until marriage with my first partner and we didn’t have sex but yeah. These partners I was with had domestic violence in their family – 2 of these partners did. I went to domestic violence counselling after thi

[Angeltakemehome]

What’s the freedom programme?

[Angeltakemehome]

My first partner that I was with didn’t cheat but he was all of the above of what you were saying. He was possessive, excessively jealous, said I couldn’t get a job with braids in my hair.
This partner that was immature makes me have a lot of regrets. I would have volunteered more in the local community. I would have tried to get a job. I did go to university which is good and I have now graduated but took time out of university because of the abuse from the immature partner (My second partner).

I am happy I got out but sometimes I wonder if I should have more counselling. I have had domestic violence counselling in the past but yeah I am not sure.

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