BraveStrongSmart

[BraveStrongSmart]

Sending 💕 and 🤗 Kitkat44. I hope you get out of your situation!xx

GR- thank you. I think I just need to have some kind and gentle times for myself and not go after someone who doesn’t give me 100% and more. Thank you!! Sending 💕 and 🤗 xx

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Hey, it’s been a while since I’ve been out of my relationship and I found going for walks and listening to music helped me feel less lonely.

Loneliness is such a horrible feeling, and I agree with Celeanor. But hopefully Lockdown should ease and give us a bit more freedom.

My private message is always open if you need a quick chat 🙂

Sending love and hugs💕

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Thanks Eggshells and gettingtired, I’ve blocked the numbers and will try contacting the bank for the random messages too, just in case anything has been opened!

Just a bit on an anxiety thing with the whole callers. But yes I don’t usually answer them, but when I did they just ended the call which was unusual.
And of course gettingtired I usually just assume if anyone needs to get hold of me they’ll leave a voicemail or a message. But nothing. It’s just odd.

Sending love and support to you both 💕

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Hi Darcy, thanks so much for the love and support 💕 it means a lot!

I’m just staying alert with it all at the moment as it’s been a long while now since he (ex) did anything…

But nothing stops them from coming back when you’re at your highest.

Sending love and support xxx

[BraveStrongSmart]

Just what I needed to hear today! Thank you and hope you are okay? 💕

[BraveStrongSmart]

Lovely quotes! ❤️

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Hey Lisa, you are most welcome and I hope others read it to!

My journey has been one hell of a rollercoaster and there isn’t a day that goes by that I’m not thankful for all the people on here for keeping up the strength for each other!!

Love to you all❤️
Keep strong and stay safe!

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Hey Lisa,
Thanks for that! I’ve been speaking with close friends who’ve helped a lot and found some things to keep me proactive and focussed on something more positive.
I will get in touch with my counsellors and try speaking with them for more support.
Thanks!

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Thank you Imagine!!
I’ve got it from an author… Vex King. He’s written an inspirational book called Good Vibes, Good Life.

I honestly recommend it as it was something that got me through the most toughest times and I still go back to reading it again sometimes. It gave me a positive mindset mentally!!

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Thank you for your replies!! I haven’t got any children with him and yes I have blocked him and all the random accounts he keeps making on social media just to contact me and get a reaction from me. Police are aware of what he’s doing… it’s just proving it’s him!!
Suppose it has been over (detail removed by Moderator) months now since I’ve been out of the abusive relationship. So I am still recovering and learning to handle how to move on and just be at peace. Still needs to leave me alone with (detail removed by Moderator) restraining orders against him and (detail removed by Moderator)!!!!

Love to you all and stay safe!!❤️❤️

[BraveStrongSmart]

I love this poem. Just what I needed to hear today. THANK YOU! ❤️

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Hey weeblewob!
I am so proud of you for getting a job molestion order in place. I’ve got one done for my abuser too and he misunderstood to why it was necessary. Even though it was needed to my sanity and safety. He now thinks it’s funny to contact my colleagues and friends to get to me. (detail removed by Moderator)

He is a nasty piece of work for not putting someone else’s needs first. That’s how an abuser is. All about him him him and no one else. It’s upsetting that he cannot see his sons needs before his own. Your son does not need that (detail removed by Moderator) in his life. He has a strong mom who is beautiful and outstanding.

Yes us women need to stay strong and support each other in these times of need!! There’s not many woman who have a support network out there or have the strength to reach out but women we are here so spread the love and strength 💕💕💕💕💕

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Thanks Eggshells and Soulsearcher!! Sorry justice couldn’t be served well enough.
Justice can be done through taking time out and focusing on yourself, or doing something that protects you from that abuser. Keep fighting and keep strong. We are all so brave, so smart and yet so strong. Don’t let them bring you down any longer.

❤️❤️❤️

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I love reading all your posts ladies about how we are treating ourselves for once!!!
I’ve just bought a new handbag and some necklaces and rings!! Even bought myself a new dress too. Feeling so guilty buying it but why not?
I could never buy things for myself being in my relationship so now being out of it I am in control!!
Hope you are all having a fabulous fun day.
Love to all 💕

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Thanks again! I do need to be patient about it but whenever I get really good days I’m like yes I’m getting better it’s two steps forward. But then I get a bad day and feel even worse and it’s like three steps backwards.

I will try those techniques and yeah I have mindfulness colouring books so will start using those too. Thanks again xxx

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