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23rd December 2017 at 9:38 pm #51817Stupidgirl40Participant
(detail removed by moderator) years!
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23rd December 2017 at 9:38 pm #51814Stupidgirl40Participant
Hi I haven’t been on here for a long while as the relationship ended almost (detail removed by moderator) years ago after (detail removed by moderator) years but I just wanted to say your man sounds exactly like my ex! Very abusive and when you get out you realise how bad it was. Best thing I ever did getting put but I kick myself all the time about not doing it sooner! Please don’t waste any more time on him hoping he will change or listening to what he thinks because he is wrong xx
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21st March 2016 at 10:23 am #11995Stupidgirl40Participant
Hi
Your story has struck such a chord with me. This is not mild and most abusers r nice the majority of the time. I am in the process of divorcing mine after almost two decades. We could go a couple of years with no incidents and he also sought professional help but it never goes away for good. If I had my time again I would get out much earlier. My overusing feelings are guilt for the children that I didn’t stop the relationship before now. Please don’t leave it so long. These men never change and we all hope they will buy they don’t. Don’t waste more of your life on him x -
6th March 2016 at 9:55 am #11031Stupidgirl40Participant
Hi mixed up mum your story is identical to mine so much so I could have written it! My daughter dislikes her dad a huge amount roo and once we have our own houses I doubt she will ever see him. My younger son as yours did not see so much so has a better relationship but as time goes on they will see the true colours come through as these men never change x
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2nd March 2016 at 9:28 pm #10882Stupidgirl40Participant
Will do thanks x
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27th February 2016 at 6:12 pm #10611Stupidgirl40Participant
Sorry at risk!
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27th February 2016 at 6:12 pm #10610Stupidgirl40Participant
This makes my heart race just thinking about you as know exactly how this behaviour makes you feel. He is just trying to get a reaction out of you but only you know how at rush you could be. Try n stay away from him like I am sure you are doing but get out if you need to. I am too living with my ex while the divorce goes through and it can be very scary so please stay safe x
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27th February 2016 at 9:54 am #10561Stupidgirl40Participant
Thanks for your reply. You are right it’s not fair as he earns alot more than me but it keeps him off my back for now until the house sells x
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26th February 2016 at 10:25 pm #10521Stupidgirl40Participant
Hi moon so glad you are safe and away from this man. You are doing your best and that is all any of us can do. We are not here to judge each other only to support. Sounds like u r very brave to have got away again. Be kind to yourself and that is the best thing you can do for your daughter. X
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21st February 2016 at 4:17 pm #10113Stupidgirl40Participant
So lovely to hear this. I am still stuck in the house waiting for divorce n house sale. I simply cannot wait for my own little place with my 2 teenagers. To do what we want when we want! Never wanted anything so much in my life x
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14th February 2016 at 10:07 pm #9696Stupidgirl40Participant
Yes very true and I think unless you have been with someone who is like this you don’t believe someone can be do calculating horrible and unstable yet so lovely to others. Even my kids see it and say he believes his own lies so why won’t others. Sad but I just want us to be free of him and the others will realise with time. It’s good to come on here and not feel so alone x
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14th February 2016 at 9:58 pm #9695Stupidgirl40Participant
Good luck for tomorrow! I have read all your posts and hoped you would b free soon. I will b the same when I move out aa no idea how to do anything but we can all learn x
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14th February 2016 at 8:41 pm #9689Stupidgirl40Participant
Thanks that’s what my friends say too. It’s nice to read all you ladies comments as I feel less insane as unless u have been through it it’s hard to understand x
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14th February 2016 at 6:20 pm #9683Stupidgirl40Participant
There are days when you feel stronger than others and I feel worse if I am tired or ill buy it is all a process and once you have gone through it that’s it it’s done x
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14th February 2016 at 3:59 pm #9679Stupidgirl40Participant
Yes very true less baggage and also all the wasted extra time I gave us means I am 100 % sure this time. Your gut is never wrong. He had a right go at me n kids today it’s awful being in the same house but no matter what I still feel free on the inside and that is important to me x
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