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thank you for the links Braelynn i will look at them

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thanks for you replys both …..joke is (detail removed by moderator) of ignoring my son he gave our eldest a big bag of (detail removed by moderator) sweets to give him …a carrier bag full what the hell was that about

 

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thanks iliketea …i fear you are right when i dumped him he done and said lots of things to get to me through our boys, he has even give our boys the silent treatment for not responding to text msg/phone calls quick enough but soon talks to them again when he wants something from them …..when is it going to end 🙁

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hi KIP …thanks i needed to hear that the strange thing is i haven’t thought about him at all over the last few months but just lately i have been thinking about him and then today ….well you know the rest x

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thank you both for your reply’s …i just feel its so unfair what he has done to me and im so angry that he can just carry on living his life on cloud 9 … he truly is sick! i really cant wait for karma to bite him up the arse!!! ….hope its soon xx

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thank you for your replies ladies x

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had enough …did your ex go back to one of his ex girlfriends or was she a friend or someone that has always been on the scene when you was together?

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had enough …you will get through it …my parents have been together 50 years now and they are still happy and contented, not like me! i thought i found my life partner and after (detail removed by moderator) years who wouldn’t i guess i thought the abuse was normal (sounds stupid i know) but that’s how it was BUT now im starting to feel free and excited that i can do what i want when i want and not be abused anymore …cant wait for my brand new future, iv’e done A LOT of research on my ex’s traits and i can tell you that it really opened my eyes to what type of abuser he is …god help his new but old girlfriend….your ex sounds very much like mine, same sort of traits look up types of abusers there are and you will be amazed at what you find x

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thank you x onwards and upwards as they say

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hi had enough …im so sorry you re going through this too, its totally devastating they move on sooo quick dont they but it only proves to me (now i can see a bit more clearly) he never had any real feelings for me otherwise he just would not have moved on from a (detail removed by moderator) year relationship in the blink of an eye, plus he does not have any feelings for his new (but old) girlfriend either, how can he! the fact that he is rubbing her in my face, tells me he is not happy otherwise it would be hearts and flowers and not even giving me a second thought, i still miss him and still cry some times but i am starting to feel better because he is not in my thoughts 24/7 like he was …you will get there, it does take time and you have to go through it to come out the other side, im not there yet but slowly getting there and you will too eventually

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hi had enough ….yes its strange the worry is its for funerals ….hope it is spam

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i haven’t contacted the companies as yet …i guess i was just wondering whether spam could do something like this

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thank you x

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would not surprise me in the least KIP …i dont feel sorry for her either purely because he abused her first time around, i cant believe how naive she is to go back to that piece of C*** after all these years …she defo has won the booby prize …she is welcome to the d******* xx

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thank you …yes you are right of course, i’m just being a confused me again …like you said he would have wanted to protect my feelings if he is a normal person …but he most defo is not normal xxx

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diymum, do you think im reading too much into this …could he have moved on do you think? its just that someone has put a seed of doubt in my head saying that he may not have been malicious in sending the card with his and her pic on and i should be happy he even sent him a card, are they right? i dont know anymore …i used to buy his cards for birthday/christmas ect when we were together, there was not any nasty msg with the card …what do you think? if that happened to you would you think it was done in malice? …confused now 🙁 x

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…thank you x

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wow thank you diymum i understand now x

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thank you all so much for your reply’s don’t know how i would cope with out you lovely ladies, you have made me so strong ….diymum i didn’t realise this was triangulation as ive never heard of it before i will have to look it up online x

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Fizzylem do you know what i would love to do that lol ….obv i wont tho x

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why would he put a pic of him and her when it was our son’s birthday …surely it should have been him and our son just show’s me how much he thinks of himself and not our son …trying to make me react no doubt x

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why tho KIP i have not done anything to him at all, he just wont leave me alone, i thought he would be happy now he has her back …obv he is not happy is he x

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thank you Ladies x

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hi KIP it just makes me wonder if he really did abuse me or whether he was just being nasty cus he never really wanted me x

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thank you so much Ladies ….xx

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hi thanks Apricotpoppy i dont think he will try and worm his way back in as ive heard nothing from him in (detail removed by moderator) months …he has gone back with his ex from years before me, engaged and moving miles away to live with her all this happened 2 weeks after i dumped him after over 2 decades with me x

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thanks KIP i cant seem to get him out of my head still for some reason and sometimes i feel scared, its like i’m waiting for him to do something its quite an eery feeling dont ask me why so odd …never felt like this ever before x

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thank you Twisted sister …i have noted everything x

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thanks Fizzylem …i dont have no contact with him at all he sends messages through our eldest x

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hi restorergirl …i just walked off so i couldnt make eye contact with him but was still upset

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