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    • #141316
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      Unfortunately he already has the money and is complaining of house prices. I’m so stupid i should have just moved out even though house is now in my name. It never ends

    • #141305
      Freedom @
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      Thanks for reply. Yes i have that book and find it useful but i can’t say what hes done if hes there with me! My dilemma is telling them with him and what to say or finding an excuse to tell them on my own when he’s gone but then he mightnt go and cause drama. So frustrating.

    • #141291
      Freedom @
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      Oh gosh they know something is wrong/ separate bedrooms/ not spending time together. I’ve no doubt they pick up on atmosphere etc…one of them is well aware of family problems

    • #135978
      Freedom @
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      Thank you for responding @wantstohelp. It means a lot. I would love to spend Xmas alone but ex is in our shared home and nowhere else to go. Stuck between a rock and a hard place. Will have to go but this is the final straw for me with family. Thanks again and happy Xmas. X

    • #131314
      Freedom @
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      No i havnt spoken to a solicitor, very hard to do when still living with him. Trying to do it amicably but feel stuck between a rock and a hard place. Nothing is in writing, trying to keep the peace while hoping i don’t get screwed. Says a lot when im living with the father of my children who has a new girlfriend who goes (detail removed by moderator) and then comes back here. So wrong but what can i do. If i had a new partner I’d be shamed.

    • #131311
      Freedom @
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      @kip he hasn’t done “anything” to warrent and occupation order. His work is emotional and in recent times behaving. Very frustrating but i can’t get him out as he co owns with me and paid majority of mortgage. Makes me question if i blew it all out of proportion but i don’t think i did.

    • #125745
      Freedom @
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      I’m sorry for butting in. I’m in a very similar situation. Just a quickbqueation @isopeace. You said your solicitor advised to keep a letter/ email stating g your not trying to keep the kids away. Is that letter to send your exs solicitor if he kicks offoff? Hope my question makes sense. ❤

    • #124264
      Freedom @
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      I’m trying to remain detached and not let my emotions get the better of me but its so hard

    • #124048
      Freedom @
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      Stay strong. Keep going. Its just a bump not a setback. I will send you positive energy in my meditation this morning. Every little bit helps. Keep going x

    • #123897
      Freedom @
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      Please don’t let the councelling hook you back in. Been there and can smell the BS a mile away. My ex also sought councelling after I left, was told to forgive himself, to feel sorry for the person he used to be. He got sympathy from councellor which is the only reason he went for a while. His real behaviour was never discussed and recently claimed to be “rehabilitated.” Who even uses that word if their innocent? In a nutshell run while you have the chance. I had an opportunity then and didn’t take it and still in the process of getting out. He will continue to go to councelling until he feels he has you where he wants you again. X

    • #123620
      Freedom @
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      Thanks @Lisa and @daff.

      Yes I am geeling a bit better today. Some days are harder than others. Nothi g has changed and I dont see a way out any time soon but still feeling a bit brighter for now. Thanks again x

    • #122366
      Freedom @
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      Thank you ladies x

    • #121978
      Freedom @
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      Yes half a story is all I got i stopped asking questions after I found out its not serious. We’ll see…thanks for replies kip and darcy x

    • #121389
      Freedom @
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      Hi @thesoundof rain. I just wanted to say hello. I don’t have much advice really but I’m sure you will find some great support here x

    • #121385
      Freedom @
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      Solace not space

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