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    • #90559
      Borntobefree
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      Hi
      Ive been out quite a while now ..its,not that that often I get triggered … few,weeks,a go I had a huge one took me four days,to recover … I just happy I got a loving family and furbabies,to help me tjrough ..

    • #89931
      Borntobefree
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      Hi confused lady
      Iam so sorry you going through this
      My ex woke me up during night too .
      For his,sexual needs ..he’s assaulted you ..ring police sweet …dont let him guilt trip you …X

    • #89827
      Borntobefree
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      Hi
      I felt angry for a while its a normal reaction..my ex walked free too .not enough evidence ..but its on file in case his name comes up …dont be too hard on yourself.
      You are free from abuse now..X

    • #77048
      Borntobefree
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      Hi
      Well done you for coming so far!!
      I.myself have been out my abusive relationship for a while. Own home. Parttime job.. Made new friends. And I.go on holiday in a few weeks solo..
      Life is good! X

    • #73192
      Borntobefree
      Participant

      Hi redfox
      Hes not won!! You need time to heal. Lot’s of selfcare.. Look after number one thats you..
      take time out from dating. Untill you have healed and no longer think about him.. Ive been single 3yrs living my life the way I want. Holidays etc.

      Your broken body will heal X

    • #73023
      Borntobefree
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      Hi miss

      You where abused by the sound of it
      My ex used my mental health against me too.. Dont let him win!! He wants you to suffer thats why he using your adult child against you. Hes brainwashing!!

      Please dont feel unworthy
      You are worth more than.him and he knows that!!! Do not let him get to you. You are strong 💪 beautiful person

    • #73022
      Borntobefree
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      Hi bakingqueen
      Sounds like he was very insecure issue’s as he reacted badly to your comment. Then turned it around on you saying you was fat!! This is a huge red flag mirroring!!
      No contact hun

    • #72813
      Borntobefree
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      Yer iam watching it now. Smh

    • #72755
      Borntobefree
      Participant

      Hi
      Took me a while to report him. Never did I realise I was in an abusive relationship till the abuse got worse
      He had no empathy for me. He did not care that he sexually assulted me.
      .he threatened me threatened my dog
      Was the last straw. Hes on record now.

    • #72679
      Borntobefree
      Participant

      Hi
      We go through these emotions
      But best revenge is to live your life happy as possible.. It kills them
      I remember watching a film on Netflix wishing I was her reacting the scenes
      Oh boy it felt good!!!
      Its good to vent to get it out your system.. Just remember you are free
      Don’t let him control your thoughts much love to you X

    • #72619
      Borntobefree
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      Hi lisa
      I have a mental illness that was used against me! No way would I abuse. So many changes need to be made.
      He makes me feel sick he got away with his actions.. I just feel so upset by this

    • #72565
      Borntobefree
      Participant

      Hi chocolatebunie
      You are strong .it takes a huge step to leave ..you can do this .. make a plan stick to it Hun ..you and your kids deserve to be happy from abuse ..things will not change it will just get worse ..hes gaslighting you
      Sending hugs X

    • #72563
      Borntobefree
      Participant

      Thanks for your replys. I told police all this about him mirroring my social media including photos of me and grandkids .. also his ex … Ooo the games they play

    • #72507
      Borntobefree
      Participant

      I cant believe I fell for his games tbh. Put blame on me etc for what he dud.. Evil.man

    • #72439
      Borntobefree
      Participant

      Hi
      Kids these days!! Chores need doing to help.. You need to try limit hrs spent on technology 2hrs day etc. I know my family have done this and it work’s OK they pulled faces but alls good… X

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