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Well done! As beachhut said, keep strong and know there is support when things get hard! But you did it and that’s great!

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I might be wrong but it sounds a little like disassociation, it’s a bit like I experience it anyway, maybe give it a Google? It’s a response to trauma xxx mind website has loads of information on it xxx

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Hi,
Sorry about what you going through. If he is removed then it is not your responsibility to look after him, it’s up to him to get support for himself. Eg. emergency accommodation. I think you doing the right thing for you and your daughter. Sounds like you very close. Sending you warmth and strength xxx

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Very glad to hear you got out, that sound lush to be fair xxxx

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Well Done!!! this is really good to hear and I’m so happy for you even tho I don’t know you! xx This forum is always here if you need support, and this is an example that there is always hope even if we can’t see it or are scared to believe it. xxx

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Hi everyone,
I have now been to the doctors. I just decided to say the honest reason for the appointment. It went fine and it helped. I have another one booked. Xx
Thank you for the support and encouragement ladies xxx
ThePoppyGirl

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Hi Landy,
That’s a good question. I just sat down to write down what I’m going to stay and turns out I don’t know how to explain it all. I see my gp frequently and he’s lovely and very patient, but I have no idea what to say. So I’m also wondering how every one went about it. I’ll update the thread once Ive been.
Love
ThePoppyGirl xx

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Hey there,
I don’t know, but I like the poem xx I can relate to it xx
Love,
ThePoppyGirl x

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Hi StormDreamer.
Have you spoke to WA? They might be able to direct you, and I think they have a solicitor who specialises in domestic abuse. Might be worth a look. Good luck and Stay Strong.
Love,
ThePoppyGirl xx

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Would you confront him about it?

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It’s probably too specify so it will get moderated. But I posted on here before about his jokes being aggressive. He disrespected my lack of consent in sexual situation. While being mad at me for something, I tried to sit on the bed and he said (detail removed by moderator) told me I was opinionated because I said I wouldn’t given up a child for adoption if I accidentally got pregnant. Just stuff like that really.

 

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Has it turned into violence for you? xx

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How are you dealing with the effects its had on you? I remember a lot of the things but the sexual elements are rather disjointed and I think they triggered by certain things. I also struggle to remember happy moments too.

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I’ll have a look thank you. My abuse was mainly psychological with elements of physical and sexual abuse.
I have just read an old diary I had as a child and there was so much anger in there and I felt ever so unloved as a child, based on what I wrote. The woman I am now, I see it from a different perspective and I feel sad for the child I was when I wrote all these stuff. I’m sorry about what happened to you, are you dealing with the effects of the trauma okay now?

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KIP you right, it will not, and I’m feeling relieved when I think about not being in this situation anymore. I’m singing up for a workshops and trying to getting my life back on track in regards of all the other aspects like my work, education, living environment 🙂
Frankfurter, Thank You! I’m planning on doing the freedom program when I’m ready 🙂
Freedomtochose I have told him that I want to leave and just that has made me feel so much better, I have not realized how much this relationship was affecting me until now. It’s scary but its necessary.
I might have done a silly thing but I have told him I want to end the relationship. However he responded very sensibly which surprised me. He said he will leave our flat soon, although I feel like I need to be very firm to make sure he does and not let myself change my mind. He also wants to remain friends and meet as friends once we had some time to adjust. It does almost seem to easy so I’m staying careful.
Love,
ThePoppyGirl xx

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