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What is more important to you a skinny body or peace of mind?

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Looptheloop, what do you mean your (detail removed by moderator) was beat? this man is very dangerous and could kill you if you stay with him. You must contact the police to protect yourself and get away from him as soon as possible. He is sadistic and does not love you if he smashes your head into a (detail removed by moderator) and puts you in the hospital!

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He overreacted, how dare he say that to you! I would have told him to cook his own, its not you.

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This is all so wrong! the whole system needs to be looked at again. I would get an mp involved and give the CAB a call. Why should you and your children suffer? it’s just unfair.

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Yes, they are weak bullies!

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Hi Lostforever, you must immediately call the Police if he turns up, tell them your fears and about whats happened in the past. Please try and sleep and have your phone with you. Also, contact women’s aid tomorrow x

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Does Ireland have Claire’s law?

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He sounds absolutely revolting and he has issues.

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Why don’t you keep a diary of all the things he does to you? read it back and ask yourself how you would feel if this was done to say your mother, best friend, sister? Would you think that it’s acceptable for them to put up with such abuse? Why are you putting up with it and making excuses for him?

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You are not being too sensitive! this is abuse. Please talk to Women’s aid and keep posting on here. Pushing and punching is not love! it is abusive.

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You ladies have my sympathy as I was in your shoes 20 years ago and got out. He would constantly yell and scream at me for years, his mother was the same. He put me through hell and was physically violent too until one day I had a breakdown and woke up and kicked him out, with the help of the police. I too felt like you. There is a way out. Please don’t think twice, you only have one life and I have no regrets. Keep talking to the fantastic ladies on here xx

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Thanks WTH x

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Thanks wants to help. I know you are right but it’s like some sort of drug that I have to break free from. I hear sob story after sob story from him and it’s just not adding up anymore. When he has gone I feel lost at first but soon get over him, then he comes back with the same old charm and I need to get rid of him I know you are right but it’s just so hard. I am probably never going to ever meet him so need to stop this and just get on with my life. Thank you x

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Thank you x

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Thanks, diymum@1. All I know is I feel sick in my stomach and can’t seem to get away from him. What does it all mean?

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He came back, swore his undying love for me over and over, then has disappeared again. This is making me ill with stress. Why is he doing this?

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I am in agreement with many of your points. I feel like we are all different from all walks of life and we should be able to talk honestly and to the point to each other without being ticked off by moderators! I have been in a lot of these women’s shoes and at the time would have appreciated someone who shoots from the hip with advice and not skirt around the issue with pleasantries. Just my tuppence worth!

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I understand what you are saying Hazydayz. I am a Leo and after my Virgo ex, I would never date another Virgo. I am disorganised and he was a neat and tidy freak and it was a nightmare.

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These men are sick in the head!. What they accuse you of, they are projecting because they are doing it themselves. This recording stuff is an invasion of your privacy and personal space and they can’t let go, so it’s stalking! Check everything in the house, do not allow these men inside your house and always notify the police. I had an ex who followed me everywhere. They are dangerous individuals.

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I understand it’s very hard to let go, you will get there, take it one day at a time x

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Have they gone now?

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I totally agree with you ladies!

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Thank you x

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My instinct is telling me that he is messing with my head! I have never met him but know that he is unwell so I keep on talking to him. I am not a doctor and am really growing tired of his behaviour towards me. I think that because I have been abused by a man in my past that my intuition is starting to wake up.

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Don’t buy the shopping!

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If you ring the Police they can get help for you. Maybe you need some help also from a doctor.

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Please get the Police involved immediately.

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That is child abuse if that’s how they are behaving. Get out of that house for your own sanity as soon as possible!

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He will never change, stay at your parents where you are really loved.

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Camel. I read your reply to my post this morning and thank you, you have given me such a wake-up call x

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