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    • #40670
      Savingmyself
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      Hiya

      We all were with a Con man abuser liar
      opportunists That is who they are
      They are not able to love anyone just good at pretending to
      Big hugs xx

    • #40669
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      They only want to abuse us more if they circle back they really really don’t love us or anyone else . Well maybe themselves
      Big hugs xx

    • #40668
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      We are all here for you
      Big hugs xx

    • #40667
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Hiya
      No it does not reflect badly on you quite the opposite
      The ones that circle back do so to ones they thinks are a soft touch including me . It is not a compliment it’s a hoover .they don’t love only see an opportunity to do some more abusing .
      So you in fact are very strong.
      Big hugs xx

    • #40666
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      (detail removed by Moderator) what ever gives them whatthey want is good to go
      Big hugs xxx

    • #40665
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Hiya
      You should be so proud of your self
      My ex used a weapon on me in front of his new girlfriend
      And she took it to mean that he wished me to leave them alone as he gave her the story that I was bugging them
      In fact he was still in arelationship with me and telling her a different story
      Her Seeing that level of violence towards me from him she never even tried to stop him it was like her agreeing that I deserved it and he was hitting me as he now wanted her .
      Even years later he still trying to get back with me and she is still with him.
      It’s mind boggling
      Big hugs xx

    • #40613
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Gosh Drangon fly
      they are really full of them self
      letting him self in who would do that ? but a bully and an abuser
      How did you stop him ?
      Big hugs xx

    • #40611
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Yay great ideas we really need to spoil ourselves after the nightmare we have been through
      big hugs xx

    • #40610
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Hiya
      Gosh they use any excuse don’t they it’s properly not even true
      They make up anything that suits them
      Well done in getting away
      I hope the young girl have good parents that see through him just like your mama did
      Big hugs xx

    • #40609
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Hiya
      Yes that is how abusers live their life latching on to good women untill they are found out and move on to the next unsuspecting women telling them how abusive their last partner was and never helped them
      Don’t take it personal it’s what they do
      Big hugs xx

    • #40608
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Hiya
      Yes it’s a great idea one he is out you can then work on keeping him away
      I hope he will do as he says as abusers are not true to their word
      well done it’s the first step
      Big hugs xx

    • #40585
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Hiya please call the helpline get your place and go with out thinking to much about it . That’s what I did and you will have a lot of support and help in getting your own place .
      You need to have peace of mind and you can’t get it staying where you are
      You deserve a fresh start and to have your own money and be in charge of what you want to do
      Hugs xx

    • #40584
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Hiya You are a beautiful gentle caring soul and you met a psychopath
      And it leaves us in a state of shock and turmoil
      If you read up about psychopaths it all makes sense
      They target us because we are kind and caring
      Big hugs xx

    • #40583
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      Hiya
      It’s like We have all been out with the same man
      you described my relationship in all that you wrote .
      Please look up psychopath free it will help
      You have been very aware and well done in getting away
      Hugs xx

    • #40580
      Savingmyself
      Participant

      I meant Please continue to protect the children from him . Xx

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