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[Savingmyself]

Hiya

We all were with a Con man abuser liar
opportunists That is who they are
They are not able to love anyone just good at pretending to
Big hugs xx

[Savingmyself]

They only want to abuse us more if they circle back they really really don’t love us or anyone else . Well maybe themselves
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[Savingmyself]

We are all here for you
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[Savingmyself]

Hiya
No it does not reflect badly on you quite the opposite
The ones that circle back do so to ones they thinks are a soft touch including me . It is not a compliment it’s a hoover .they don’t love only see an opportunity to do some more abusing .
So you in fact are very strong.
Big hugs xx

[Savingmyself]

(detail removed by Moderator) what ever gives them whatthey want is good to go
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[Savingmyself]

Hiya
You should be so proud of your self
My ex used a weapon on me in front of his new girlfriend
And she took it to mean that he wished me to leave them alone as he gave her the story that I was bugging them
In fact he was still in arelationship with me and telling her a different story
Her Seeing that level of violence towards me from him she never even tried to stop him it was like her agreeing that I deserved it and he was hitting me as he now wanted her .
Even years later he still trying to get back with me and she is still with him.
It’s mind boggling
Big hugs xx

[Savingmyself]

Gosh Drangon fly
they are really full of them self
letting him self in who would do that ? but a bully and an abuser
How did you stop him ?
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[Savingmyself]

Yay great ideas we really need to spoil ourselves after the nightmare we have been through
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Hiya
Gosh they use any excuse don’t they it’s properly not even true
They make up anything that suits them
Well done in getting away
I hope the young girl have good parents that see through him just like your mama did
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[Savingmyself]

Hiya
Yes that is how abusers live their life latching on to good women untill they are found out and move on to the next unsuspecting women telling them how abusive their last partner was and never helped them
Don’t take it personal it’s what they do
Big hugs xx

[Savingmyself]

Hiya
Yes it’s a great idea one he is out you can then work on keeping him away
I hope he will do as he says as abusers are not true to their word
well done it’s the first step
Big hugs xx

[Savingmyself]

Hiya please call the helpline get your place and go with out thinking to much about it . That’s what I did and you will have a lot of support and help in getting your own place .
You need to have peace of mind and you can’t get it staying where you are
You deserve a fresh start and to have your own money and be in charge of what you want to do
Hugs xx

[Savingmyself]

Hiya You are a beautiful gentle caring soul and you met a psychopath
And it leaves us in a state of shock and turmoil
If you read up about psychopaths it all makes sense
They target us because we are kind and caring
Big hugs xx

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Hiya
It’s like We have all been out with the same man
you described my relationship in all that you wrote .
Please look up psychopath free it will help
You have been very aware and well done in getting away
Hugs xx

[Savingmyself]

I meant Please continue to protect the children from him . Xx

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