Borntobefree

[Borntobefree]

Hi
Ive been out quite a while now ..its,not that that often I get triggered … few,weeks,a go I had a huge one took me four days,to recover … I just happy I got a loving family and furbabies,to help me tjrough ..

[Borntobefree]

Hi confused lady
Iam so sorry you going through this
My ex woke me up during night too .
For his,sexual needs ..he’s assaulted you ..ring police sweet …dont let him guilt trip you …X

[Borntobefree]

Hi
I felt angry for a while its a normal reaction..my ex walked free too .not enough evidence ..but its on file in case his name comes up …dont be too hard on yourself.
You are free from abuse now..X

[Borntobefree]

Hi
Well done you for coming so far!!
I.myself have been out my abusive relationship for a while. Own home. Parttime job.. Made new friends. And I.go on holiday in a few weeks solo..
Life is good! X

[Borntobefree]

Hi redfox
Hes not won!! You need time to heal. Lot’s of selfcare.. Look after number one thats you..
take time out from dating. Untill you have healed and no longer think about him.. Ive been single 3yrs living my life the way I want. Holidays etc.

Your broken body will heal X

[Borntobefree]

Hi miss

You where abused by the sound of it
My ex used my mental health against me too.. Dont let him win!! He wants you to suffer thats why he using your adult child against you. Hes brainwashing!!

Please dont feel unworthy
You are worth more than.him and he knows that!!! Do not let him get to you. You are strong 💪 beautiful person

[Borntobefree]

Hi bakingqueen
Sounds like he was very insecure issue’s as he reacted badly to your comment. Then turned it around on you saying you was fat!! This is a huge red flag mirroring!!
No contact hun

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Yer iam watching it now. Smh

[Borntobefree]

Hi
Took me a while to report him. Never did I realise I was in an abusive relationship till the abuse got worse
He had no empathy for me. He did not care that he sexually assulted me.
.he threatened me threatened my dog
Was the last straw. Hes on record now.

[Borntobefree]

Hi
We go through these emotions
But best revenge is to live your life happy as possible.. It kills them
I remember watching a film on Netflix wishing I was her reacting the scenes
Oh boy it felt good!!!
Its good to vent to get it out your system.. Just remember you are free
Don’t let him control your thoughts much love to you X

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Hi lisa
I have a mental illness that was used against me! No way would I abuse. So many changes need to be made.
He makes me feel sick he got away with his actions.. I just feel so upset by this

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Hi chocolatebunie
You are strong .it takes a huge step to leave ..you can do this .. make a plan stick to it Hun ..you and your kids deserve to be happy from abuse ..things will not change it will just get worse ..hes gaslighting you
Sending hugs X

[Borntobefree]

Thanks for your replys. I told police all this about him mirroring my social media including photos of me and grandkids .. also his ex … Ooo the games they play

[Borntobefree]

I cant believe I fell for his games tbh. Put blame on me etc for what he dud.. Evil.man

[Borntobefree]

Hi
Kids these days!! Chores need doing to help.. You need to try limit hrs spent on technology 2hrs day etc. I know my family have done this and it work’s OK they pulled faces but alls good… X

[Borntobefree]

Hi hun
There is no excuse for abuse
Hes marking you feel guilty
My ex had mh problems but I suffered severely because of him. Sexual abuse emotional abuse.. I nearly died too

Do.not let him control you.x

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Hi numpty
So proud of you.. Only look back tovsee how far you have come. X

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Hi sadness
Your mental health will get worse .we believe every single word you are saying ..freedom is only a step away you can do this x

[Borntobefree]

Oh sadness
What an evil man .please report the abuse Hun .don’t suffer in silence there is help out there … You need to get away with your kids and be safe .it’s a hard decision to make and not easy by far .but you can do this sending you hugs x

[Borntobefree]

Hi
Do not let him send you crazy
Because thats exactly what hes doing to control you.. Mind games!!
Ignore him if you can

[Borntobefree]

Hi
I was doing great until I met my ex
He brought all my childhood abuse back in emotional abuse.. He also used paedophile tactics on me
Made me very very sick.. Its been quit a while since I left him the mental scars remain now. I am in a better place now but still got a long way to go. Iam lucky in a way because my first abuser did time!! I never got help nor support till I left my ex.. Best desicion ever.. I will never trust another man again

[Borntobefree]

Hi
So sorry you having flashbacks
I was abused as a child I can remember most of it. But most of my childhood after that is a blur to me. It has a serious effect on my life!
Here if you need to talk X

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Hi diymum
As long there is enough evidence to support your claim ..no it’s government funded Hun
Cica have been running yrs I got a solicitor no win no fee 25% off my award

[Borntobefree]

Hi
I was diagnosed with PTSD but would never ever hurt another soul ..I feel my ex had a mental illness but that was not an excuse to hurt me !! He lied to police and he got away with his actions and obviously I was to blame
Smh

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Hi
Well done for getting out. Its normal to feel like this. I remember when I left I was in a right mess.. But I promise you it does get easier stay strong 💪 hugs X

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Hi feather
Well done in reporting to the police
Its such a let down when these vile creatures get away with it.
My ex walks free too. Not enough evidence….. Karma will catch up with him.. Big hugs x

[Borntobefree]

Its been a few years since I left my ex.. I want too start dating again but at the same time I loving my own space and doing what I want in life without control.. Trust your gut instincts if you doubting your new relationship and want advice.. Break free now till you are really ready X

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Hi hun
You are not alone I also was abused as a child.. All my relationships ive attracted narcissists.. Used and aused.. Took me over 30yrs to get thearpy best thing ever I learnt a lot from.it.. I cant even think about going into a relationship yet.. Ihappy with my furbabies now

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Hi ilikechicken
You are in an abusive relationship. Its time to get help…hes using the children against you.. Its not right!!also these abusers love to isolate you from family and friends
..get in touch with your local WA.. They will help.you leave… Stay safe don’t let him intimidate you hun

[Borntobefree]

Hi
I questioned myself if I was the abuser.. Because I picked up a knife to my ex.. These abusers provoke us to make us look abusive blame shift onto us.. They are evil 😈

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